Stranger Chases A Woman With A Note After She Smiles At Him

 

In today's modern world, a lot of people think smiling at a stranger is rather odd. So many of us keep our heads down — buried in a phone or just examining cracks in the tile — that smiling at someone in a place like a grocery store may lead "targets" to believe we're up to no good.

Haline Ly was not most people. She always made an effort to offer a sweet smile to anyone who crossed her path. But when she flashed her signature grin in a bustling grocery store, she never expected to be handed a note that would change the course of her life.

Haline Ly and her partner owned a design business together in Sydney, Australia, but were in the messy process of parting ways. Now fresh off of a seven year relationship that was ending in heartbreak, she felt emotionally closed off and raw.

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In the recent upheaval of her life, she found comfort in her Saturday routine. The most important aspect of which was going to her local grocery store to gather her items for the week ahead.

With the creative and sometimes disorganized mind of a professional designer, she went to the store without a shopping list, opting instead to wander the aisles, knowing she would find what she was looking for (no matter how chaotic the store).

After gathering her groceries, she stood in the busy checkout line and nonchalantly reached to divide her groceries from the stranger behind her. In that moment, she offered him her signature greeting. A genuine smile in his direction.

The stranger on the receiving end of Haline's warmth was Richard Wheeldon, a local High School teacher. He, too, did his shopping on Saturday. However, he always had an organized list in hand to ensure he didn't miss a thing.

Richard was the kind of person who saw the world in black and white terms (although the colorful, mismatched socks he loved to wear told a different story). He always had a quirky sense of humor.

As a bachelor, he picked up the bare essentials for the coming days and carried on through his shopping trip in the most average way. Until Haline smiled at him in line.

As the two finished checking out, they ran into each other on the escalator on their way out of the store. Richard chose this moment to do his best 007 impression and smooth talk Haline.

But the conversation was less than riveting, revolving around a produce store Richard attempted to recommend, but embarrassingly forgot the name of. As an awkward silence fell over them, they went their separate ways. Until Richard made a decision.

In his head, Richard replayed the smile from Haline and chose to act. Instead of letting her go, he quickly scribbled a note on his receipt. He then took off into the parking lot to chase down the woman he couldn't forget.

Luckily he caught up to her right before she got in her car. He handed her his note without a word and sheepishly headed the other direction to return to his own vehicle. He wondered to himself as to whether he made the right choice.

Later, Haline read the note, which included Richard's name, number, and the simple phrase "Crazy, I know." She sent Richard a note of her own. In her usual style, she didn't let any time tick off the clock before expressing how she felt.

In her note, Haline responded by saying "That was cute, Richard. I say yes!" She then took a photo and sent it to the number on the receipt paper. She never could've guessed his response.

The two quickly made plans for that very evening! Although Haline already had plans, they arranged to meet afterwards. Past midnight on a beautiful evening they met in the city where they would end up walking and talking for hours.

The date went so well for them that, in the following three weeks, they hardly spent any time apart. There was a meaningful balance of their traits that enchanted both of them. Haline was a source of creativity and imagination for Richard.

It did not take long for the couple to decide that they had something very special. Even Haline, who had never dated someone she knew for less than a year, found herself falling for Richard immediately.

For Richard's 40th birthday, Haline planned a surprise party. She gathered all their friends and family together to celebrate the man she loved. Unbeknownst to her, there would be a lot more to celebrate that day.

See, Richard prepared a surprise of his own for that day, as one of his friends let him in on the secret. He organized his family and wrote another note for Haline. Each person held a different part of the phrase he had written down.

At the party, Richard got up and gave a short speech, in which he explained how much he loved Haline and cherished their relationship. He finished the speech, and his family held up the note he had written. It said four words: "Will you marry me?"

Haline excitedly said yes once again, and the couple enjoyed a fabulous wedding shared with everyone they loved. Now raising a family together, they're living proof that a simple gesture can make a big difference.

Jamie-Lynne Knighten learned this lesson, too. See, she and her husband recently welcomed a new baby into the world, and she had to devote nearly all her time and energy into caring for him. She knew she could really use a guardian angel.

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Following a draining trip, Jamie-Lynne touched down in Southern California. She would've liked nothing more than to go home and sleep, but the Knightens had almost no food left in the house. She decided to make a quick run to the store.
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So Jamie-Lynne headed over to the Trader Joe's in Oceanside with her five-month-old in tow. Weaving through the busy aisles, she filled up her cart with a number of items. However, this errand wasn't going as smoothly as she hoped.
Her worn-out infant was throwing a tantrum in the store. Between trying to calm him down and apologizing to other customers around them, Jamie-Lynne barely had time to scan the shelves for food she wanted!
Finally, the tired mom and kid made it to check out. With any luck, the line would move swiftly, and they could get home in a matter of minutes. Jamie-Lynne stepped up to the register and pulled out her credit card.
Except for each time she swiped, the register declined her card! Realizing that the bank thought she was still traveling, Jamie-Lynne panicked. How was she going to pay for this huge grocery order?
Moments later, she felt a tap on her shoulder and whirled around to face a stranger. Without giving him a chance to speak, the stressed mom said she was sorry for the delay. The last thing she needed was a customer screaming, too.
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Except, scanning over Jamie-Lynne's $200 order, the customer — who introduced himself as Matthew Jackson — made a shocking offer. He said he would pay for her entire cart, though with one condition.
Jamie-Lynne had to pay it forward and someday do the same for someone else in need. Grateful beyond belief, she accepted his generous proposition. The mom also insisted on jotting down Matthew's information, so she could pay him back.
Matthew mentioned he worked at a nearby LA Fitness, so Jamie-Lynne called the gym the next day. When she asked for Matthew Jackson, however, all she heard on the other line was a sob.
That sobbing came from Angela Lavinder, the manager of the LA Fitness. Once she took a moment to calm herself, Angela explained that Matthew wouldn't be able to meet. There had been an accident.
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Less than 24 hours after Matthew paid for the Knighten's groceries, his car had veered into a tree. Two passengers with him entered the hospital with severe injuries, but Matthew got the worst of the crash.
He died from the trauma shortly after. This news shook Jamie-Lynne to her core. Was it possible that the life of this Good Samaritan was snuffed out just moments after their brief meeting? She soon found out that his selflessness wasn't an isolated incident either.
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Notably, Matthew and his mother traveled to Phoenix, Arizona, one summer. When he spotted a homeless man sitting alone on the sidewalk, Matthew jumped out of the car on a busy street to hand him a bottle of water.
It was so unfair, Jamie-Lynne thought, for this young man's bright future to be cut short. At the very least, however, she pledged to make good on her final promise to Matthew. She would pay it forward.
So Jamie-Lynne went online and set up an organization called Matthew's Legacy. She asked all interested members to "please do something extraordinary for a stranger to honor #MatthewsLegacy and help restore faith in humanity."
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Jamie-Lynne began sharing photos (like the one below) and stories of her family performing various acts of kindness. Soon, the number of members of Matthew's Legacy climbed into the thousands, and then the tens of thousands. Other people started submitting stories, too.
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People from all over the world posted themselves paying it forward, big and small experiences with kind strangers. Collectively, they were really making a difference in the world. This fact was not lost on Matthew's friends and family, either.
Nic Carlson, one of the passengers in Matthew's car during the fatal crash, saw it as a perfect tribute to his friend. Speaking to Matthew's special character, Nic said he "always wanted to make people feel better or fix a problem that they had."
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For Jamie-Lynne, it was a cathartic experience to somehow pay back the kindness she received at such a vulnerable moment. Matthew's Legacy gave her a chance to teach her children the value of good deeds. They saw firsthand one little action can affect people.
Matthew deserved more out of life. However, now thousands of people are following his example and living out the values that he stood for. Just take for example this family from Colorado...
It should come as no surprise, but homelessness can really wear on a person. With no stability in life, it can be nearly impossible to find a job or the money necessary to fix your situation. Olivia and her family knew all about that.
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As the winter of 2016 approached, Olivia; her husband, Eric; and their three children found life pretty hopeless. They lived in a converted school bus that repeatedly broke down, and they had no money, no jobs, and no prospects. Nothing was going well for them.
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The family moved from Florida to Missouri in hopes of a better life, but they found few opportunities there. They hit the road again, but they hadn't even traveled 1,000 miles before their bus broke down in Colorado. At that point, they were homeless, jobless, penniless, and stuck.
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From there, the nightmare worsened. Someone stole all of Eric's IDs. They couldn't find work, and making matters infinitely worse, they couldn't find the money for RV sites. That's how they ended up parked behind a gas station on Thanksgiving Day.
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"We didn't think we were going to have a Christmas at all," Olivia told Denver 7 News. "We'd have been lucky if we had enough food, or if we got jobs." As a family, they were at rock bottom. And then they came face to face with Virginia Kinch...
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It was a strange set of circumstances that allowed for Virginia and Olivia to meet. Back in September 2016, Virginia had been selling some items from her basement on Craigslist when several interesting responses filled her mailbox.
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Single mothers seemed to be the only people responding to Virginia's Craigslist postings. None of them could afford Virginia's stuff, but they all offered to exchange work for the items they wanted. That's when Virginia had an idea.
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Instead of selling the junk she'd cleaned out of her basement, Virginia decided to give it away. "Take what you need," she told the inquiring mothers. Virginia wanted to support those in need, and she truly enjoyed the feeling that came from being generous.
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By the time Thanksgiving rolled around, Virginia, her husband, and their three teenage daughters were passing out food to the homeless around town. They knew about the family living behind the gas station in a broken down bus, so they prepared them a special Thanksgiving meal.
But when Virginia and her family knocked on the bus's door—and came face to face with Olivia and her kids—they saw something eerie. It was like looking in a mirror. There, homeless, broke, and hungry, were a mother, a father, and three little girls. In another life, it could have been the Kinch family in that bus—and that broke Virginia's heart.
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"We fed them and went home and cried," Virginia told Denver 7 News, "and decided that we needed to do something." But what could they do? Virginia and her husband had their own house and children to take care of. Still, the family had an unbelievable idea...
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The Kinch family had a second house in the city of Greeley, Colorado. Virginia and her husband had planned to rent or sell it, but after chatting with Olivia behind the gas station, they thought of a better use for it.
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That's how Virginia ended up driving back to ask Olivia and her family if they wanted to move into the Kinch's spare house. "I just didn't think it was real," Olivia said. "Like a cruel joke... 'cause who does that? Nobody does that."
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"We just couldn’t leave them like that [with] those little babies in the cold," Virginia told the Longmont Daily Times-Call. She donated her house to people she didn't know at all until they got back on their feet. But Virginia wasn't finished!
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For a week, Virginia and her family collected donations of food, clothes, and toys from people around the town. Her teenage daughters even offered to return Christmas presents so more money could go to supporting Olivia and her kids! The community had even more surprises for the struggling family...
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Remember that Olivia's husband, Eric, had lost all of his forms of identification somewhere along the way to Colorado? Well, the local church in Greeley, Colorado, stepped in and helped find replacements!
While Eric had his IDs replaced, Olivia found daycare for her kids. Without having to care for and supervise them 24 hours per day, she and her husband were free to interview for jobs again. They had momentum in the right direction!
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"It can be really difficult to get out of homelessness. People don't understand that it's so unstable, it's so hard to get your footing and get out of it," explained Olivia. Thanks to Virginia, though, this family was certainly on their way.
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Meanwhile, Virginia plotted what to do with the property once Olivia and her family were able to secure a residence of their own. If all went well, she figured she'd loan the house to another homeless family in need.
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In the end, because Virginia and her family cared about others so much, Olivia and her kids were able to have a very merry, indoor Christmas! Olivia said it best: "People just need someone to care."
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